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NEVER LET THE FOLLOWING THINGS KILL YOUR DREAMS

                         Its my belief that everyone have that place which he/she always dream to reach, something that he/she dream to have and that life which he/she dream to live. It become so difficult to achieve that life when we are on our way and meet big challenges that sometimes seems impossible to tackle them. Many people’s dreams are buried down just because of the things that they experienced consciously or unconsciously.
Today I want to share with you most dream killers, they kill our dreams even before we started to work on them, they are enemies of our achievements.
Let’s know them so that we can fight them.

NEGATIVE LABELS.


The number one dream killer is negative labels. Sometimes we try to do something important that can totally change our life but it happen that people whom we owe respect and believe in them give us negative labels, they tell us its not possible, and we can’t do it.
I know some of you have been labelled in the class as “lazy students” “dumbest in the class” “ slow learner” and probably your teacher is the one who did so. Those labels make us feel inferior and incapable to do something, they reduce our passion and energy to strive for success. Sometimes even our parents label us negatively. These labels make many people feel unimportant in front of others.


Today I want to tell you that, labels ain’t your reality, they are not reflection of your limit but the reflection of those people’s limit about your ability,
who know you better than yourself?
Do you really want to make them proud of their predictions about you? People will say a lot once you start because they have nothing to do, they will say about you because they can’t talk about themselves. Its time to keep on and don’t give credit to what they say. Its time to prove to yourself that you believe in yourself than anybody.
Do you think that there is anything enjoyable than doing something that everyone thought is impossible? Is there anything enjoyable than achieving the impossible?
Be who you are and do what you feel because those who mind don’t matter.

SELF-DOUBTS


Another thing that kills many people’s dreams is self doubt. People have great ideas and dreams but the biggest problem is that they think they are not good enough to make them happen. You tell someone that you are capable to do something and they say,
“no in my family no one did that” they say “no my father tried also but failed so how am I going to make it?” They refer to someone they know and judge themselves.
Its true that something look impossible now to you, but am telling you if you dedicate yourself nothing will be impossible.
It was impossible for you to walk by the time you were crawling but now its normal.
It was impossible to solve calculus when you were in grade 3, but when you reach college it become normal.
It was impossible to cook when you were young, but after learning, it became easy. Don’t worry take out all your doubts, what others failed to do is not the indication that you will fail too. You are unique, and special believe in yourself. Self doubt is the result of not believing in yourself and your abilities, if you don’t believe in yourself who else will believe in you?

LEANING ON THE WRONG WALL



Have you ever involved yourself into something and once you achieve it you feel unsatisfied, and the same as before?? One of the biggest challenge to young people. Most people do something that is out of their passion. They just do to please someone, they do to be famous or get money, they don’t love it or have a future plan about it. If you do so then you are on the wrong wall, you are wasting your time. Involve yourself in doing something that your future will thank you for it, do something that when you remember it you feel like the champion. Stop pretending to be somebody while you are not, stop pleasing others by doing what you don’t love. Its time to be you, to live your life and stay on the right wall. Make each step of your life counts in your future.

Work out those three and you will enjoy your life.

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