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HOW SELF IMAGE AFFECTS OUR RESULTS.

We use our mirror to see the reflection of our physical appearance.
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We clear ourselves once we see that something is not okay in the reflection of our appearance. It is very easy to put your tie in a right way because you have something that can show you if its not right.
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But in life we succeed not by correcting and viewing our external appearance but our internal appearances, our behaviours, habits, belief, confidence and self-esteem.
Mirror can’t show us that we have good or bad behaviours.
There are 3 ways that man uses to see his inner reflection and each one have the effects towards his success.

THE WAY WE SEE OURSELVES.
We all have that image we hold about ourselves, its very hard to change it because we have strong belief that is the true us. We see ourselves as strong people, confident, respectful and leaders.
This image is very potential as it boost our self-esteem and confidence. Believing that we can do it also help us in solving many problems, internal and external one.

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The bad thing about this one is when you see yourself as inferior, incapable and impotent. In this view instead of boosting your confidence it boost your fear.
Bad thing about this image is that most of times people lie themselves that they are capable while not, and vice verse.

THE WAY OTHERS SEE US.
Sometimes the way others see us have great effect in our performance and results we get.

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Sometimes you can see yourself as a leader and people who surrounds you don’t see you that way, great chances they won’t follow, you can see yourself as a teacher or coach while those who surrounds you don’t see you that way, great chances they won’t pay attention to you. Its good to know how others see us and know what we can do as per their reflections but sometimes their reflections don’t prove the true us, so don’t take 100% decisions according to the image they have about you.
THE TRUE IMAGE OF OURSELVES.
This is most important one and the one I want you to focus on.

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You can see yourself as weak, and others can see you the same but you might have great strength in you that you don’t know if you have it. We never tell ourselves that we have ego, jealous and hate. We never tell ourselves that we are sinners, thieves and bad people but sometimes we are. You find some people have bad habits buy they try to see themselves as good people and denying the truth about themselves.
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The true image about ourselves is the most important one as it reflects our true abilities, talents and uniqueness that others don’t even see them, it reflects our habits and get rid of them once they are bad and improve them when their good.
We can see the true image of ourselves through self analysis, reading and studying other people. You will never know how good leaders are unless you read about their behaviours, you will never know if you are talented unless you read how talented people are and behave.
My request to you is that you have to read, read and read to find the true you. Self education is the most important form of education than anyone. Knowing yourself is the best business that have no loss.
Be that person who don’t need approval from others.

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