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DO YOU WANT TO BE RESPECTED?? HERE ARE 6 THINGS TO BOOST YOUR RESPECT.

In one of my seminars I told my audience that in this world, excellent guys want to be respected while everyone want to be loved.
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The greatest pleasure of the world class thinkers is the level of respect they have in their society. We all know that you can’t buy respect or you can’t force people to respect you, it move together with the way you act and behave. Many people want to be respected and find it hard to make people respect them, worry out, now I present to you 6 things that can increase your respect in your society.
1. HAVE TRUST IN OTHERS.
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Naturally you can’t have respect to someone who have doubts with your ability and your potential. If someone share with you something that means he/she consider you are  the good person, so if you disappoint him/her and say that is not capable to make it you will loose trust from them and then respect.
All people want to be trusted, and if you do so they will trust you back then respect you all the way. Respect always goes with trust.
So be someone who trust others and the one who can be trusted, never do something that can break your trust from others, because it will not only break your trust but also your respect in them.

2. HAVE COURAGE.
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You need to have energy to do something better. To earn respect you need to have courage to lead, courage to change and the courage yo give the best yield at work. In any society people love to work with people full of courage because they know how enjoyable the work is going to be. When you have courage to work, you will never feel weak, you will always be strong and positive regardless of the results you get and that is what many people love to see in people they respect.
3. BE AN EXAMPLE.
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Will you be happy if someone treats you the way you treat them??
Will you be happy if your son or daughter do things that you do now??
To gain respect you have to be an example, someone whom other people will look at and say that guy is my role model. Never use abusive language, never drink alcohol excessively and if so don’t drink it at all, don’t assume or suspect others badly, don’t use negative and discouraging words when speaking with others. Be an example, be someone whom everyone will love to listen to you and be with you.

4. EMPOWER OTHERS.
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What is your contribution in other people’s life?? How do you make them feel confident and strong.
The best way yo earn respect is to empower others, let them need your help and support them all the way, we never get rich by being selfish, but we do by helping others
Let others feel your presence is the best thing ever and your absence the worst thing ever. Empowering others doesn’t mean that you should only give them money or capital but even sharing with them different ideas and give them the way forward, giving them energy and make them feel strong and capable to make it that is the true definition of empowering them.

5. STAY COMMITTED.
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Is there anyone who respect lazy person?? Obviously no
Everyone respect someone who is really committed to make things happen, the one who never leave something he/she started, the one who never stay out of the way. Being committed in your dream can make others have trust in you then respect you too. Be the best at your work and do your best.

6. BE CONFIDENT.
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I found it’s true even to myself that I never respect someone who is not confident, the one who don’t believe in themselves. Respect is not something easy to be earned you have to do something to earn it  and you have to be confident.
We never ask protection from people who are weak, we never ask help from people who don’t believe in themselves. Be confident my dear brother and sister.

Something important you need to know is that you can have respect now but if you do something wrong, your respect will go down and to earn it again its not an easy job..

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