DO YOU KNOW HOW TO END DIFFICULTIES IN RELATIONSHIP?? DO THESE 5 THINGS.
Its the joy of everyone to have the partner who care, love and feel
responsible for his/her happiness. These things are always there when
the relationship is still young, but more problems arise when
relationship is growing.

People breakup everyday and start new relationship, people fight in their relationship and some people get divorce just because of some of the things that can be solved but no one seems to care about that.
I know many people face hard times in relationship and what I want, is you to read and understand what am going to share with you today. Having long and positive relationship is not an easy thing to happen but it is if you are going to adapt with the following things…………..
1. TRUST YOUR PARTNER.

One of the major source of most of the fights in relationship is lack of trust, not trusting your partner. You always want to go through her inbox to see what she text, you want to listen to everyone who talk with her, you want to follow her wherever she goes just because you don’t want to trust her.
Sometimes fight start when one of the couple don’t feel free because the other don’t trust him/her, sometimes fights start just because you concentrated in finding bad things from your partner. Trust your partner and he/she will do the same to you. You just need to believe that he/she loves you.
2. LOVE UNCONDITIONALLY.

Its hard to love unconditionally but you have to in order yo protect your relationship. Give out your best to your partner and expect nothing from her, the issue of doing something so that you can get something and when you don’t get, the fight start, say that you love her so much and expect nothing in return so that you won’t be disappointed. Unconditional love never die always because there are no disappointment.
3. QUIT YOUR EGO.

When misunderstanding arise in relationship, to protect your love, you have to quit your ego, remember love is not a war that we should find the winner, if you did mistake, ask for forgiveness. Let your spouse know that you feel sorry for what you did, if you see your partner isn’t in the good mood don’t interfere, let him/her cool down first.
In most relationship when the fight start no one want to cool down and let the issue at the end, everyone want to be the winner and no one want to feel weak, in fact its not being weak but strong enough not to quarrel with your lover. Quit your ego and all problems in relationship will end.
4. UNDERSTAND YOUR PARTNER.

Its everyone’s responsibility in relationship to understand his/her partner than anyone else. You have to know him/her well, but in most of today’s relationship couples don’t understand each other because they have just met in the beach, bar or restaurant and start relationship without knowing each others characters.
You have to know her weakness, strength and all of her problems, you have to listen very carefully whenever she tries to make you understand, it doesn’t mean that because you are the man you should raise your voice all the time no no no.
When she did something wrong understand her, don’t let her feel so guilty for just a minor mistake.
5. BE POSITIVE MINDED.

What do you think when your spouse don’t pick up your calls or answering your text??
What do you think when your husband come late at home??
What do you think when your lover speak with other ladies??
Those are among of the things that lead to some relationship fights. You need to be positive minded and know that you are the one and only to him/her and no one will replace you. Be positive and if you want to know something ask gently.

People breakup everyday and start new relationship, people fight in their relationship and some people get divorce just because of some of the things that can be solved but no one seems to care about that.
I know many people face hard times in relationship and what I want, is you to read and understand what am going to share with you today. Having long and positive relationship is not an easy thing to happen but it is if you are going to adapt with the following things…………..
1. TRUST YOUR PARTNER.

One of the major source of most of the fights in relationship is lack of trust, not trusting your partner. You always want to go through her inbox to see what she text, you want to listen to everyone who talk with her, you want to follow her wherever she goes just because you don’t want to trust her.
Sometimes fight start when one of the couple don’t feel free because the other don’t trust him/her, sometimes fights start just because you concentrated in finding bad things from your partner. Trust your partner and he/she will do the same to you. You just need to believe that he/she loves you.
2. LOVE UNCONDITIONALLY.

Its hard to love unconditionally but you have to in order yo protect your relationship. Give out your best to your partner and expect nothing from her, the issue of doing something so that you can get something and when you don’t get, the fight start, say that you love her so much and expect nothing in return so that you won’t be disappointed. Unconditional love never die always because there are no disappointment.
3. QUIT YOUR EGO.

When misunderstanding arise in relationship, to protect your love, you have to quit your ego, remember love is not a war that we should find the winner, if you did mistake, ask for forgiveness. Let your spouse know that you feel sorry for what you did, if you see your partner isn’t in the good mood don’t interfere, let him/her cool down first.
In most relationship when the fight start no one want to cool down and let the issue at the end, everyone want to be the winner and no one want to feel weak, in fact its not being weak but strong enough not to quarrel with your lover. Quit your ego and all problems in relationship will end.
4. UNDERSTAND YOUR PARTNER.

Its everyone’s responsibility in relationship to understand his/her partner than anyone else. You have to know him/her well, but in most of today’s relationship couples don’t understand each other because they have just met in the beach, bar or restaurant and start relationship without knowing each others characters.
You have to know her weakness, strength and all of her problems, you have to listen very carefully whenever she tries to make you understand, it doesn’t mean that because you are the man you should raise your voice all the time no no no.
When she did something wrong understand her, don’t let her feel so guilty for just a minor mistake.
5. BE POSITIVE MINDED.

What do you think when your spouse don’t pick up your calls or answering your text??
What do you think when your husband come late at home??
What do you think when your lover speak with other ladies??
Those are among of the things that lead to some relationship fights. You need to be positive minded and know that you are the one and only to him/her and no one will replace you. Be positive and if you want to know something ask gently.
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